i think im honestly pretty strict with who i would label a passoid but sometimes i see people who i thought were bdd passoids say they get misgendered irl before even speaking. does that mean im a hugboxxer? or am i blind and somehow missing the clocky features?
pictures dont show everything. lighting, angle, etc. change a lot. being in person, in motion, then makes a big difference
yeah i get that but for me i always think i look worse in pictures so its hard for me to imagine that for some people they might look better in pictures than irl
general size doesn’t show up in pictures, but it’s one of the first things people notice irl (and i would argue it’s very clocky)
yea i guess it might be a height thing but sometimes i see it happen to ppl that aren’t even that tall. measurements don’t even seem that bad either
For me it’s my clothes and probably androgynous face, because my shoulders are the widest part of my body certain clothes just make look more clocky like work uniforms and not doing my hair properly or it’s a bad haircut will lead me to being clocked
