i think im honestly pretty strict with who i would label a passoid but sometimes i see people who i thought were bdd passoids say they get misgendered irl before even speaking. does that mean im a hugboxxer? or am i blind and somehow missing the clocky features?
pictures dont show everything. lighting, angle, etc. change a lot. being in person, in motion, then makes a big difference
yeah i get that but for me i always think i look worse in pictures so its hard for me to imagine that for some people they might look better in pictures than irl