Raise your standards maybe? Fucking some tradie who would 100% kill you if his wife or friends ever met you isn’t a good idea IMHO.

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        if it were a handsome young white guys arm it would be acceptable because he would be kind and not transphobic or something

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      I would rather be single than lower my standards.

      My current gf is an actually nice and successful person.

      When I had lower standards as a baby trans I ended up in toxic relationships.

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        Yeah no shit you’d rather be single than lower your standards if you don’t need to lower your standards to be in a relationship.

        Not everyone is fortunate enough to be able to get the perfect partner or whatever, whether it be living in a shithole or not passing well enough some ppl are just stuck single forever which is much different to being single for a temporary period. And hence have to go for relationships in which they may have to make some sacrifices or just end up in a worse mental state than said relationships would put them in due to long term loneliness