im probably too autistic to ever have one myself but im just curious i guess
sorry if this shits been asked before, i havent seen it myself but im only semi active here
met him years before i transitioned. it was my band’s first show and his band was the big local band. our bands would play a lot of shows together and we even did a couple van tours together so we got to know each other very well in close quarters. didn’t see each other for a good few years when i was transitioning. we started hanging out again and i was so fucking nervous but he sort of instantly fell for me. we’ve been together for 3 years now but we’ve known each other for like 10
kind of living the dream c:
awww thats so sweet! it sounds like a movie plot or something, i hope your lived dream continues!
i met her on social media through friends and while i think i am not a good enough partner to make it work long-term thats 100% on me and not the fact that its online. it depends on the kind of person u are and they are and if youre only semi active here u may not fall into this category lol but i think its not completely unfeasible to date online for some people
i think dating exclusively online would be unfair on whoever my hypothetical partner was, a lot of what i want out of a relationship is having someone physically there for me who i can do my best for and if thats not possible then i would probably grow anxious and struggle to communicate. i really wish you the best with her, as much as i use that sort of thinking to berate myself, i dont think theres a real heirarchy of ‘good’ partners (i mean, obviously one could be bad but i dont think someone whos earnestly trying could be put at great fault and its more so situational and outside of their control) but rather just people in better positions to hold a relationship than others. basically, ignore my uninformed rambling and please be kind to yourself
thanks, i appreciate that
