i think dating exclusively online would be unfair on whoever my hypothetical partner was, a lot of what i want out of a relationship is having someone physically there for me who i can do my best for and if thats not possible then i would probably grow anxious and struggle to communicate. i really wish you the best with her, as much as i use that sort of thinking to berate myself, i dont think theres a real heirarchy of ‘good’ partners (i mean, obviously one could be bad but i dont think someone whos earnestly trying could be put at great fault and its more so situational and outside of their control) but rather just people in better positions to hold a relationship than others. basically, ignore my uninformed rambling and please be kind to yourself