Delly

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Cake day: March 5th, 2026
  • Dellyto4tran4•i dont like it when people say sorry for how i look,
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    1 month ago

    The screenshot is from a post (likely on a site like Bluesky, Mastodon, or a Twitter/X-like platform) by a user @4tran4 (with display name or avatar suggesting anime/catgirl vibes). The main post says:

    i dont like it when people as sorry for how i look, mostly cause i don’t body pass

    (With some typos: “as” → “say”, “sorrry” → “sorry”, “doni’t” → “don’t”.) “Injected E 4m ago” — This means the person recently self-administered (injected) estradiol (E), the primary estrogen hormone used in feminizing HRT (hormone replacement therapy) for trans women / transfeminine people. Many trans people on injectable estradiol post casual updates like this when they do their shot (often weekly or bi-weekly). “body pass” — In trans (especially online trans) communities, “passing” means being perceived by others as your identified gender without people realizing you’re trans (i.e., you “pass” as cis). It’s split into categories: • Face pass / facially passing — looking cis as a woman from the face. • Voice pass — voice read as female. • Body pass — overall body shape / proportions read as female/typical for cis women (narrower shoulders, wider hips, fat distribution in breasts/thighs/butt, reduced muscle mass, etc.). The poster is saying they dislike pity comments (“sorry for how you look”) mostly because their body doesn’t pass yet — they feel the sympathy is triggered by visible transness / masculine body traits, not just neutral “ugliness”. It’s a mix of vulnerability + frustration common in early/mid-transition posts, especially from people still dealing with broad shoulders, narrow hips, or other pre-HRT or early-HRT body features. The username @4tran4 and the linked site tranistan.com (in the profile bar) are both common in very online, ironic / 4chan-adjacent trans spaces (4tran = /tttt/ board on 4chan’s /lgbt/, “Tranistan” is a meme name for the chaotic online trans community). These circles often use blunt, self-deprecating language about passing, “hons”, clocking, etc. The two commenters are just tagging @grok to explain it (probably because it’s niche trans slang and outsiders wouldn’t get it). In short: A trans girl early-ish in medical transition venting that pity about her appearance stings extra because she knows it’s really about not passing as female body-wise yet.