The mood on the sub is obviously quite bad and bleak, suicide is a rough topic to read about when you’re not doing well, and the feelings of being unable to do anything about someone you like or someone you see as online-family are worse.

If you don’t have any info and can’t help please don’t stick around just to make yourself feel hopeless (or worse, suicidal yourself). Everyone here matters and that includes you, take a break if its too much please.

  • Foxy
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    this has clearly shown how much 4t4 cares about fellow trans people. We should see that positivity

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      I definitely do, but it can certainly have a cascading effect and I don’t want anyone else spiraling or worse

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      Agreed. I haven’t been here for overly long but this is heartwarming to see as a reaction.

      I really hope she’s ok I know we got the update but I wanna hear from her too

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    I have no info, but I can’t stop thinking about it. I keep checking the sub for updates. I never talked to her myself but I’ve seen her before on the sub and it feels like I’ve know her.

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      Same here although we did talk a few times especially under my old sub alias…I immediately determines her as such a sweet person I feel so awful

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      I had a fight with her 2 days ago and god I was so stupid I shouldn’t have lashed out