Society doesn’t. Men not conforming to masculine social standards are seen as pests. Men and women are mostly more fine with a man dressing up and speaking as a woman and almost seeming like one, rather than feminine men who are called “flamers” and “demonic twinks,” etc. To be accepted as a homosexual one must act as a straight man, even masculine gays who act like homosexuals are seen as creepy, predatory, and so on

I’m so sorry. Comphet isn’t an easy hole to dig oneself out of. I wish you the best of luck