genuinely why do they think their life will magically change once they have sex? I don’t get it. I had it and it infact made my life worse bc it was st the hands of someone who didn’t like me and only did it b. they were love bombing me and wanted my body. losing ue virginity doesn’t make u super powerful and cool, ppl need to grow up from being 15
its the same all or nothing mindset that people with poor self regulation of all stripes have. obsession with one thing that will totally fix all their problems, ignoring the larger whole.
like chasing a goal weight or whatever else. it gives you an outside thing to blame for all your issues so you dont have to focus on any actual self improvement and coping skills
actually having sex is bad and something to be ashamed of
False nuke
