sex is in the brain

sex is in the rest of the body too

gender is in how we interface with and conceptualize our brainsex, and in what we envision the rest of our bodies sex to be

gender is in how we want the world to experience us as sexed beings, in how we want others to perceive us as sexed beings

gender is in how I interpret and make inferences about your person thru observing your perceived and/or claimed sex