I thought u people were doing something women never do and very moidy, but then I met a polyam cis lesbian and I had to reevaluate my world view position. I just lumped you people in with the pedophiles who identify as trans. I don’t know how to sort the thing out because I lived next to a trans identifying pedophile in john50 custody for 6 months. I’m psychologically misjumbled and broken but I’m trying to piece together the pedo vs non pedo aspect