I talk to other trans men using STPs and I’m so jealous. I had an absolutely awful experience trying to pee with one and pissing myself instead. Really hit home that I was just imitating a man by using a piece of silicone. Trying to have sex with one was also awful. My lover was kind and encouraging, but it didn’t work right and I felt like a lesbian. I wasted a ton of money on a hunk of silicone that sits in my closet.