• magnoliaOP
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      5 days ago

      For the ones I don’t like it’s just bc they need to grow up. they’re so immature and irony poisoned and I just feel like I force myself to be around them

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        5 days ago

        Then what’s stopping you from just leaving them? If it’s because you’re worried the other friends you like will be mad, maybe that’s something you should tell them directly

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          The thing is I talked abt how annoyed I am with the other friends to the ones I like and they agree, I just think they don’t wanna stop associating with them bc being annoying doesn’t make someone a bad person

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            4 days ago

            If that’s the case, I’d just try bringing it up to yhe annoying ones why they’re upsetting you. They might not even realize they’re being like this.

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          whats stopping them is the inability to make new friends, i kinda struggle with that where ill like text ppl i dont like but i refrain from ditching them cuz i dont really like being alone

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            Honestly if you aren’t worried about upsetting the ones you do like by ditching the annoying one, I’d just go for it. Or atleast let the immature ones know your problems with them if you think there’s something worth saving in the friendship. But I don’t really see the point in putting up with shitty people who just make things worse