people fuck with me a lot more when they don’t know i’m trans. it seems they are a lot more chill with me being a faggy dude

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    this is sort of my plan. i dont wanna deal with the headache and humiliation of coming out. if they see me as a faggot then im not gonna bother correcting them. its easier that way, idk

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      neither do i i’ve just noticed i get a lot more respect when they don’t know i’m trans. it’s mostly abt everyone else not me

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      4 days ago

      i’ve seen ur selfie you don’t need to do that

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        i get mixed messages here and irl i feel like im only seen as a man. ill admit that my remaining beard shadow and height play into that but idk

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            im trying. its expensive though and money is a little tight since im unemployed again.

            and im only 5’11". i dont consider myself a heighthon or anything but i definitely lean on the tall end of the spectrum which is gonna affect things

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              do they have milan laser in your city? i know they run a ton of deals and they have lots of locations in the midwest. i definitely understand what you’re saying about money though it takes a while to set some aside </3. and 5’11 i think you’re okay. i have multiple women in my family that are 5’11 or 6’0 its not super out of the ordinary or anything.