What did he mean by this?

  • Maffy
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    3 days ago

    don’t let him persuade you or anything

    • AbbyOP
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      3 days ago

      he said it a while ago when i was very unmotivated for college applications, him and my mom got mad and then whent hey calmed down my dad cried and said those words

  • Basedandtrollpilled
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    3 days ago

    Uh… Losing you could mean a multitude of things… Losing you as a “son”, you running away or losing you in a more emotional sense, like losing your association in the family or something.

    Also he probably won’t kill himself.

    • AbbyOP
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      3 days ago

      all of them combined are me trooning out basically

      • Basedandtrollpilled
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        3 days ago

        Uh, yeah. Does also tell they care about you, but to what extent? It’s hard to tell. Some families rather they still have a child, even if they are a troon, but some others really do reject and can’t accept.

        • AbbyOP
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          My family would lose alot of clout due to this… and they care about that “X aile gibi rezil olmayalım, bizim ile ilgili konuşma fırsatını vermeyelim” which does sound very narcissitic

          • Basedandtrollpilled
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            3 days ago

            Ah yeah, typical. My cousin told me this would ensue too, after I told him I’m a troon. It’s unfortunately a consequence of living in a non individualistic society. I know people will lose a lot of respect for me if I’m outed as a troon in my school too. But your family doesn’t necessarily have to announce everyone that you’re a troon right? Even if it has to be apparent, they should just find a way to cope with it.

            • AbbyOP
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              3 days ago

              nah they call my grandparents every week and force me to talk with them lol…

                • AbbyOP
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                  3 days ago

                  just the usual… but the fact is that we are still very well connected to our family in Turkey

  • skyelover123
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    3 days ago

    thats one of my biggest fears if i kms desu, he would be fine though