I’m a gayden and I’ve been told my taste in men is fembrained/fujo coded. I’m not into barely legal twinks or femboys, which is what I always saw as the fujo shit, but apparently having my type usually be men in their mid to late twenties/early thirties (my own age demographic) with slim builds who aren’t super hairy is enough to get the yaoi obsessed hefab label thrown at you.

I’m curious if transbians ever get the opposite accusations if their type is seen as too basic or too much like what straight men are stereotyped as going for

  • Acheye
    6·
    3 days ago

    Nope, I just be loving women that also love women and theres nothing malebrained about that 🙂‍↕️

    • Acheye
      2·
      3 days ago

      Also, Id like to add that statistically lesbians as a whole are more accepting for trans people than the trans community themself so we’re judged less with stuff like this

  • RtHonAlice
    3·
    3 days ago

    I like women in suits the most, like androgynous more than curvy and vastly prefer muscles/being fit over a fat ass…I don’t really know what men are after, but usually it is not this.

        • DeadgiveawayOP
          2·
          3 days ago

          Tbh if you said your type was blonde with big tits and a small waist you’d sound like the other half of the lesbians I went to college with so imo you’d be fine regardless.

          • RtHonAlice
            2·
            3 days ago

            Ahaha, so I can’t really lose then. I ended up with a blonde with a respectable size who wears suits, so in the end I got it all somehow.

  • RabbitHoleGirly
    2·
    3 days ago

    I find my taste in men to be kinda male-brained by my taste in women is female-brained… like I think I kinda like the androgeny but bigger guys often scare me, and so it takes time to find out if they have a sweet spot

    • DeadgiveawayOP
      1·
      3 days ago

      Yeah big guys don’t nessicarily scare me but they do nothing for me physically.

      • RabbitHoleGirly
        2·
        3 days ago

        They do me, but I think that’s trauma and daddy issues related, it doesn’t help that I’m a competitively smaller woman at 171cm and generally weak

  • Kath
    2·
    3 days ago

    hmm idk but we have the same tastre in men so i think youre just correct brained

    • DeadgiveawayOP
      2·
      3 days ago

      If my brain was correct I wouldn’t be on this forum but I get what you mean

  • i am an exit
    1·
    3 days ago

    wow never thought about this. Is my taste in men fembrained or malebrained?

    • DeadgiveawayOP
      2·
      3 days ago

      I am so sorry about this, I was never trying to give more people brainworms

      • i am an exit
        1·
        3 days ago

        but what classifies it as malebrained specifically? I get my stuff from tumblr and I also post yaoi, doesn’t get any more fembrained than that

        • Nomad
          2·
          3 days ago

          Idk just that most cis women I talked to told me they don’t find the type of men you post attractive and gay men told me the opposite

    • DeadgiveawayOP
      1·
      3 days ago

      I probably should have specified that I personally don’t see someone’s physical type as any particular way. And a straight guy would never do any type of “bottoming” so that comes off as properly lesbian to me imo

    • Kath
      1·
      3 days ago

      how is being a bottom malebrained