My God, an entire house dissociating, for me. I am honored.
There’s honestly nothing worse than trying to be pretty and girly and getting misgendered, especially deadnamed. Like wtf did I do this for.
The most bizarre thing is seeing that they’re forcing themselves into it. I’m clearly a woman, and the whole world is treating me like a woman. Waiters, people on the street, going to the women’s restroom without a problem. Only my family, and exclusively my family, insists on using deadnames and masculine pronouns.
And that sucks, it drags my ability to pass down. If I’m passing by, living normally, their behavior make people transvestigate me, It puts me at risk.
I understand, I’m so sorry. My family are the only ones who deadname or misgender me and it’s awful, I’ll be dressed up nicely and my mum will refer to me as her son and it’s awful
