the genes dont matter to me personally. i just want to carry my child, be there for all their firsts. i dont want to miss my baby’s first breath. first word. i want to be the first one to hold them. no one else able to claim to be mom.

idk why it matters so much to me, but it does. im not fully against adopting really either, its just not the same and id hate to force a child to have an unpassing tranny parent. thatd be humiliating for them