well I hope my next landlord will respond tomorrow so I can handle moving soon… im so stressed about everything… my mind js shattering… I know its stupid but csn someone more mature than I help me get through this shit? Its fucking hard

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      its my first move. i am all on my own, i have a little backup but its my gf and her father. i’m just so scared and stressed.

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        if u can, get a place around a week b4 ur move out date so u have a week to move. big stuff r easy to move, small stuff is the hard part, have bunch of boxes rdy. u can also move by sections to make it easier on ur mind like focusing on only kitchen stuff first, then living room etc.

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          i’m talking to my future landlord about moving in early. i will probably get a response tomorrow. if anything, we will move my items to my gf’s house for one night and i will sleep in a hotel for a day. i have a plan prepared.

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            thats good, a storage unit is also a good alternative if u have alot of stuff

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              nah it’s gonna be like… 2 big boxes of stuff. if i had time until july 1, i would likely be able to move by myself ngl.

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        i Wish , . ihad, More 2Say, Except .Well, Wishes , but’s .i Really, Hope .Everything, Works out .Nd Think, it Will .i’m, Sorry , its so .Stressful🫂🫂

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      i am not handling it well. my mind is shattered and just. I’m so fucking lost. I need someone to calm me the fuck down

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        Eventually your next place will be nice and youll feel better. Try to focus on cleaning your current appartment and how you will decorate the next one

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          im moving in with my gf; my current apartment is 6 hours of work to do, it’s not much at all… i just need one day to pack… i just want to skip ahead… also i will have a moid roommate this month… great

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            ouugh… gl with the moid… its so exciting youll live with your gf!!

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              it is, just… this will be a stressful month and she cannot come over anymore… it’s so scary… i don’t know if i’ll survive mentally ngl…

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                you will. 1 month is like 31 days, weeks will pass super fast. focus on the fact youll live with her. ygmi

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                  i just want to cry right now. im just so fucking lost and scared of everything that will come. i wish i could skip it.