victim blaming me for being uncomfortable with the rampant transmisogyny in the world. like yea I think its actually a reasonable response to my situation to assume that even people who are allies are going to treat me noticeably different if I’m out to them.

I’m not even the biggest hater of cis people but to pretend that the number of them that genuinely would see me not differently after learning I’m trans isn’t tiny ignorant and stupid.