Its frequent… its so unbearable… I also stopped taking my vitamins that are labeled “womens vegetarian multivitamins” (they are vegan) and he eats my vitamins because they say women on the bottle… its vitamins not estrogen… these are not going to make you more androgynous… they are going to give you a stomach ache… he has his own vitamins too… he chooses to eat mine instead… so now I have no more vitamins… and no more Gatorade… he says its not something I need and treats it like it is a treat… maybe it is a little… but I have them for electrolytes… because i dont have enough in my body because I have 1 kidney… thats why i have them… not for treat but so I dont faint as often… it makes me so angry… he complains that I get things from the grocery store and he doesnt… my mom tells him to make a list and he never does… thats why he only gets basic foods to eat and never gets anything special… he doesnt make grocery lists… you want gatorade or soda or whatever… send a list… he really really bugs me…
get a lock!
I cant lock the fridge…
for your compartment inside the fridge
Its a drawer it slides and cannot lock either… the only thing that ever worked was im not kidding putting things like Gatorade underneath fresh vegetables… which i find extremely funny that the thing that he wont eat is a healthy vegetable… the issue is that this is a really small compartment… and the vegetables take up like 60% of the space… and idk if I could eat that many vegetables in time before they spoiled…
install a lock on the drawer? you have free will yk
It cannot lock… its a plastic sliding drawer in the bottom of the fridge… the only way I could add a lock would require drilling a hole… which i cannot do because I dont want to drill a hole in my fridge and I also cannot because its not our fridge it came with the place and we rent…
I’m gonna assume you told your mother about this situation already (if not I would do that). You could also ask for her to buy double of your food, so that there is enough for you and him? Idk what’s up with him eating your vitamins though… If the vitamins can be stored outside of the fridge, definitely hide them bc they are important.
She knows… shes asked him to stop and he doesnt… double food is expensive… most of this food is stuff that only I like but gets eaten anyway… if there was double his portion he wouldnt eat… I get something like shiitake mushrooms… they get eaten by him… now if I had a carton and he had a carton of mushrooms… he wouldnt eat his portion… he doesnt want my food because of the foods… he wants it because its my food… and if he eats my food then he still has his own food I cannot eat due to dietary restrictions… so now its he gets 2x food I get none… with things like Gatorade he just wants the sugary drink… and drinks are quite expensive… 6 Gatorades is like 7$ cad… and 12 cans of soda is like 13$ cad… she buys juice… orange juice, apple juice, cartons of iced teas and such… there is sugary drinks available to him… but he drinks mine… that i have for not fainting… because I guess it tastes better… the vitamins I liked to keep in the kitchen cabinets… to take in the morning alongside my pills… because I get the water cup from the kitchen… the vitamins id forget about if they were hidden… because they arent “essential” like my medication… I keep my medication on my room because no way am I letting him near my cyproterone… estrogen too but mostly im worried he’d eat my cyproterone…
