is it gigahon -> passoid or hon -> gigapassoid?
i think im at one of the middle two columns does that make me like a twinkhon or a regular hon?
is it gigahon -> passoid or hon -> gigapassoid?
i think im at one of the middle two columns does that make me like a twinkhon or a regular hon?
… does this make me a hon… I don’t know how to handle this… I knew I was being pittied
have u posted in a selfie sub? where are u at
I have… I have gotten around 20-25 upvotes and like… 2-3 responses
This is on TroonSelfies, I haven’t tried others…
https://www.reddit.com/r/troonselfies/comments/1th3ool/comment/on3e18w/?context=3
i guess that’s column 3 from the left? idk maybe passoid or twinkhon then there doesn’t seem to be a consensus
That’s fair, I can probably do better, especially with makeup and maybe if I get FFS, I think I mog many cishons, so that’s really more of a bar for passing maybe… like idk, I feel like lookism is conflated with passing sometimes…
But generally, I think I pass idk… but I think me thinking I’m passing is like being at the peak of mount stupid in dunning-kruger
yea the chart def has lookism mixed in. i get how u feel about passing i always feel like that if i think i pass then ill finally get misgendered and also find out that people have been making fun of me in passcords or something. its probably better for ur mental health just to believe it though bc theres no end to the doubt otherwise
I am not sure how to think about passcords because I’m I think a passoid enough… maybe, like they’d just be being mean girls at that point, not to mention my measurements are pretty good, so like… idk I have a 0.74 whr and like 1.08 shr (circ)
Like my face is one of my worse qualities, but even then it’s not so bad… maybe, and like I could get makeup and FFS for it… idk
i mean yea if u can get ffs and afford it that’s great. i’ve never been part of any passcords but i imagine they’re honsnarky and evil.
it’s nice to be able to have hope in stuff anyway i feel like shit mostly bc i can’t do anything. like ive had ffs and i’m still ugly and maybe clocky too idk. i don’t get misgendered by strangers but i feel like based on troonselfies responses im probably a twinkhon
Genuinely, idk what they know I think they’re gonna dig for stuff until you look plastic… I think all women have some amount of masculine traits and complete removal of those is sisyphean but also I don’t know if passcords exists to that capacity, I think from my experience even the trans people I’m around don’t seem to congregate in such ways… and I’ve been around a decent amount of trans people I’d think
Also I have all my selfie posts on lemmy in my profile if you want
i don’t think i’m a good judge of passing my brain is kinda rotted
That’s fair, I’m flip-flopping between thinking I pass, and that I don’t and all my friends clocked me but are being to nice to tell me… but I’ve also been stealth since moving to University, so it’s always been a paranoid fear of mine to be clocked
it’s really hard 🫂