a cis woman told me she was jealous of my hair multiple times and i dont know if shes making fun of me. Is it like a backhanded thing??

  • sophia
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    11 days ago

    i dont think shes making fun of you i think telling someone you like their hair is just how women talk to each other kinda

    • gloomfoodOP
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      11 days ago

      oh, i guess it might just be that i still feel like a fish out of water when it comes to making small talk with women

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        11 days ago

        youll get used to it complimenting someones hair is like my go to thing when i need to say something

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    11 days ago

    It probably means you stood out to her in some way and she complimented the thing about you she liked most

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    11 days ago

    depends, is there something unique about ur hair, did she have really shit hair?

    if u just have normal long girl hair and arent stealth it was backhanded/pitty

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      11 days ago

      i have long hair but it’s really frizzy and dry most days. i was sort of theymabmoding

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    11 days ago

    I think you are overthinking it. Enjoy the compliment

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      11 days ago

      i would but my hair was super dry, it mightve been pity