I think the thing that ruined my mental health the most in 4tran was people constantly reposting posts of transphobic people. reading posts and comments constantly telling u your not human or your delusional will ruin your mental heath completely. and honestly its nice to be away from that. if you really want feel worse download twitter. its fine to vent or doom but sharing reposts not only makes everyone feel even more shit but it destroys the fun and coping aspects of 4trans communities and makes the sub unusable without making you want to kill yourself. its starts to get to you when your at your 111 repost of a cis person saying trannies are insane and shouldn’t have basic human rights or consideration and fuck does it hurt when its a normal member of society whos “supportive” saying all the transphobic lines but wokely then everyone in comments agree. can we stop or at least censor it?
I thinks its fine to talk abt but actually seeing the image of real users or people saying that shit makes you feel like life isn’t worth it.
its feels nice to just have normal community that just does normal things not a pollical broad that shows every single transphobic person that has ever existed like I’m pretty sure that one “ally” doesn’t need a personal call out so we know most cis feel the exact same way, just talk abt it instead. putting a face to transphobic person makes it feel so much worse, starts to feel so horrible to know so many people think we don’t deserve rights or basic empathy.
I personally come here to cope and feel better. its so funny to read some of the posts and feel like an actual community, a place to escape too were everyone’s also a trans person and i get escape away from the cis internet where they all seem so happy and the only time trans people are brought up is to dismiss them or ridicule.
can we please not repeat the same mistakes 4trans it was so funny before.
yea we need a repost slop board…


