my voice is untrained and i also dont really care about it like that, i dont really have any desire to walk around doing everyday stuff in a skirt or dress, nor do i really wanna wear makeup.
i can buy women’s clothes, i actually did order a few things on Friday, but the stuff i wanna wear isnt anything that a guy couldnt wear too.
like idk. it feels nebulous to me at best. girlmoding or whatever wouldnt make me feel better even if i lived in a progressive area and doing so would get me gendered “correctly”. i dont care about getting she/her’d, none of that stuff matters to me. so i just dont see the point.
to me there’s different levels of girlmoding with voice and hair being the minimum for me. i don’t think u have to wear a skirt or makeup to girlmode but u do need some sort of strong signifier that ur presenting femininely
idk, im too theyfab nb gender abolitionist brained i think.
my hair has been long (at least to my shoulders) for a long time, like even when i was repping so it doesnt read as feminine to me at all too
i don’t think just long hair is feminine necessarily but i style mine in a way that i think is feminine enough to be considered girlmoding