Plus in my specific case I was raised by a single father who passed onto me a lot of malebrained traits and hobbies. Also my mom and dad had a deal where if I was born a guy my mom would name me, and if I was born a girl my dad would name me. My dad just so happened to pick a gender neutral name that people associate a little more with men, so I don’t have to change my name

My mom would have named me Paxton. Fuckin Paxton.