I think about this sometimes. I’m not sure if it’s like the word “guys” or not but I’ve defaulted to just not calling trans women it even if I call cis women nigga because it’s unclear. It’s weird because if I said “niggas” it could be a group of all men or a mixed gender group but not a group of women. However, With all the black women friends I’ve had the word has been used to refer to each other and to men
The word could be used as a slur against women as well. All black people can be niggas. Not just men. So it could be gender neutral??
Also I’ve found that white people mostly see “niggas” as solely referring to black men but who cares what they think? Not me.
great question tbh. i was gonna say i don’t think it matters imo but sometimes i do see people say “that’s a nigga?” when they think a woman is trans. so that is them saying “nigga” is a man in that context? idk. it’s subjective ig. it wouldn’t bother me
Yeah, I think it’s like the word “guy” with a little bit more ambiguity to its gender. Like you wouldn’t look at a girl sideways for calling another girl “nigga” but you also wouldn’t point at a girl and say “thats a nigga.”
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idk i’m black and i believe nigga refers to black men or just any man like 90% of the time especially when it’s being said by a women sorry if that’s caucasoid brained but i rarely hear black women call each other niggas. men use it in a more gender neutral way sometimes but also refer to other men as niggas a lot so i think it’s more masculine since it’s typically used by men or to refer to men
I do think it’s used more to refer to men but when im in a mixed group of black men/women the word is used to refer to pretty much everyone. And I’ve heard and seen women call each other the word. I think it might be an age thing too because older black women I know only use the word to refer to men. Only younger people use it to refer to everyone.
im in a gc with two black women and they refer to each other as nigga all the time. I think it’s context-dependent.
A woman saying “Niggas ain’t shit.” vs Me saying “Nigga go to bed.” If I was talking to any blk woman I know they wouldn’t think I was calling them a man.
o_o ive never thought of it as gendered before… i guess it is a little masculine? it really depends who is saying it, who theyre saying it to, the context, etc. between women ive def heard “nigga please (eyeroll)” so it can’t be JUST a masculine term. at least not all the time. it also varies from location to location i feel, maybe even as specific as community to community, how Black you are, etc etc. men ARE more likely to call each other nigga though yeah.
my mother is pretty ladylike, she wont say nigga, but she will curse lol. my family didnt say it growing up in the rural sw desert, so i dont say nigga often, if at all, and i eapecially dont say it to Black women unless they refer to themselves that way…
there is something to be said here about the misogynoiristic hypermasculinization of Black women (especially by yt people), but im not exactly sure how to connect it. yfm? like when yt people say the dreaded hard R, its meant to be derogatory and also hypermasculinizing to all/any black people.
AAVE being heavily contextual and regional make its so that it’s hard to give a definitive answer to questions like this tbh which is why I just default to not using it for trans women at all lol. I’m getting varying answers to this. In my experience it’s used more gender neutrally but for other people it’s specifically masculine.
I think the word being used for black women is just dehumanizing nature of the word in general as its used for black children as well. The hard r isn’t just black men. Though I won’t deny there’s a masculinization aspect to it.
nod nod. so i guess tldr, i guess its better to err on the side of caution and just not say it willy nilly even if we are also Black haha. im living in tx now and i think native Black houstonians would say im goofy for overthinking it x)
black women use it too but I feel less often, online I’ve seen more black women find the word horrible especially older ones
wait I read the post wrong
I think it’s gender neutral but skewed towards men, women don’t rlly call eachother it but they call men it
Makes sense
The black women I know dont use it less often lmao. Only the older ones ever scold people for using itin my experience. Older people in general seem not to like it, not just women.
Id say usually it means men, calling a black womana nigga is pretty wild imo not that it doesnt happen though.
I call my homegirl nigga all the time 😬
hoooooo boi! Idk its your homegirl tho so. Part of my reasoning is cause im told im “not a female” and that i am a “nigga”.
