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    1 month ago

    Studies show that most people who are virgins by 22 years and 10 months usually stay virgins until ~43

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        1 month ago

        …thats obviously a joke, its normal for trans people to not have late first times for anything romantic, id start being worried at 27 or something

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            sorry i should have been more careful, i thought it was ridiculous sounding enough…

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                Thats really stupid no offense, just be comfy with yourself and then meet people and itll happen

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                  I know I KNOW EVERYTHING GOES HOW IT SHOULD…

                  I’m in a process of healing my head yeah… It takes time but damn it hurts that I can’t really do anything to fast forward through it…

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        No of course not, the point is to have a comfortable and nice connection with someone, im sorry you got assaulted, youll have a nice first time with someone you love eventually

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          What if like i gave in halfway through the assault but not anything piv? Idk sorry if this is uncomfy andout of the blue

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            Im really sorry that happened, it wasnt your fault, i hope you heal from it as best you can

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              Yeah i will try but idk if there’s anything to heal from it. It happened and thats that ig

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                I mean idk I see a lot of pain in your comments there, but yeah that second part certainly isnt how it works unfortunately

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    I was in that boat until I was nearly 25, then I found a beautiful relationship with a wonderful tranner. It unfortunately had to end but it’s proof I’m not unloveable and I would do it all over again even knowing how it would end.

    It’s not over. You are worthy of love. You can still find it.