Seeking advice because I’m losing my fucking sanity. For two months now I’ve had a friend group with whom I’m not really close but with whom I regularly attend metal bars and gigs. It consists of two cis guys (one bi one straight), a cis girl who’s bi but heavily prefers men and genderfluid she/hefab who’s famous for outing people (outed the bi guy to straggot and me without bi guy knowing). All of them have been oblivious to me being trans however so I’ve been larping as a cis dude. The bi girl had a stupid habit of third-gendering binary trannies (but sees and treats she/hefab as a woman btw) and when she talked about her FTM ex she always made sure to mention that he’s le heccin exotic cuntboy yooo. It was getting on my nerves so I called her out in our group chat about a month ago and she seemed to understand. And just two hours ago the guys and I texted in the same chat about some gay shit and straggot said “but Shad doesn’t have a penis, how can he shoot ropes?” and bi guy replied “we’ll figure it out on the spot”. I pretended I didn’t just fucking die from the inside and responded something like “WHERE DID MY DICK GO?! NOOOO”. Straggot replied “it’s on you for going into the pit, they bit it off you in there” and we changed the subject but I’ve been thinking about it since. In addition to this friend group I have others with whom I’m stealth and everything’s been going fine so far. This friend group treated and still treat me like a cis guy, that’s obvious, given how shitty they all treat she/hefab and other trannies. But what if they’re just pretending? What if they figured it out because of the way I’m openly protective of trans people? What if she/hefab clocked me and outed me to everyone else? I don’t fucking know how to handle this please help

  • Basedandtrollpilled
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    1 month ago

    It is very fucking suspicious. Your response should’ve been to reject it rather than affirm it. If they don’t know for certain and are just suspicious of you/are testing grounds. The correct way to answer would be to probably say that he’s projecting his micropenis onto you or something. I they haven’t mentioned it again or treated you any different, it’s either they know and don’t want you to know. Orrr they are still not sure. How the fuck would the (s)hefab know you’re trans btw. Did you tell?

    • ShadOP
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      1 month ago

      You’re right I should’ve responded differently but I’m too fucking fembrained for this. Also he might’ve clocked me by my appearance somehow because I have a tendency of generally passing to cis people but getting clocked by trannies 90% of time