I feel like I’ve only see men freak out about the use of retard in real life honestly

even normie cishet women seem to say it too, when if there’s a man that says it it’s almost always a chud, and even then they don’t use it as casually either.

some men seemed to learn that saying retard was #notacceptable and they had to find a new word because they couldn’t say it to some performative guy that’d go “it a slurrrr…” and some men just use actual full on slurs in their vocabulary so you just don’t get the casual retard anymore