He opened the door to the room really suddenly and I jumped. Then he said it and I tried my best not to explode. He’s never said any pet names like this to me and I think he was just playing around. He knows I’m trans but has a girlfriend and has called me things like bro and man before.

It’s probably nothing and he doesn’t really see me like that. I don’t pass at all and his girlfriend is so feminine.

But I can’t stop thinking about it. I even dreamt about him last night 😳

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      2 months ago

      On one hand yes, but with the other context given it sounds rather evil.

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        2 months ago

        I know 😢 ,

        Knowing him and how he treats his gf the most likely answer is he just likes knowing he can get that reaction out of me. But I want to believe.