I’ve been playing games and flirting with this guy I met through friends the last few weeks, and I very quickly found myself developing some feelings for him. He’s really hot in a nerdy way that I adore, taller than me, works out, has a sexy voice, and is just hilarious and has me laughing all the time.

talk of sexuality came up during a hangout with friends, but then when we were DMing later I asked for more details and he openly admitted he would date trans women and sees them as women. so I figured I would never get a better opportunity to come out so I did and he was surprised but has been very cool about it.

we’ve been talking even more and flirting more sense then and I’m really happy about it!! I get little heart flutters thinking about him throughout the day 😊

I haven’t been with a man in so long I hope things continue to work out 🙏

  • friday
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    2 months ago

    giwtwm. gl and enjoy ur future boyfie!!

  • Janettte
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    2 months ago

    giwtwm i so wish i could date my guy friend ive know for like 4 years he accepted me for being trans no problem I hate that he will never want me over a cis girl

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      2 months ago

      yeah… I fear I’ll always worry about being replaced with a cis woman but I hope I’ll find a guy where I worry less.

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    2 months ago

    i really hope it works out, u seem wonderful any man would be blessed to have u

    • WanderingOP
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      2 months ago

      thank you so much 😭💜

      it feels so crazy to let myself have hope because I feel like until I’m out, there’s a 95%+ chance they lose all serious interest.

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        2 months ago

        its sucks that that’s true even for post ops but it is, good luck dear

        • WanderingOP
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          2 months ago

          yeah it’s unfortunate. you lose the penis chasers/GAMPs but you only gain a small percentage who were on the fence or weirded out by penis but otherwise okay with trans women. I didn’t date much pre-op though to be fair but both sides suck. thanks girl 💜