i dont think people really understand what its like to be taller than your cis sisters when you are 12 and they are 17 and 18 respectively. or how it feels to be the tallest in the room 90% of the time and i dont even mind my height, i dont call myself a heighthon even. im only 5’11".

can you not have a bit of fucking empathy? height absolutely does matter. you quite literally have 0 idea what its like to feel like a literal giant next to cis women. short people can still have struggles, im not acting like you cant. like ive said, voice and face matter more, but height will get you clocked. for me, it doesnt matter much cause idc about the social shit, but for people who do, that shit matters a fuck ton. like come on.

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    2 days ago

    Yeah, it really matters for day to day as well, most misgenderings of tall cis women or tall passoids happen when the other person just sees a “presence” in their peripheral vision on the street or something.

    Under [INSERT HEIGHT] its “excuse me miss” and over [INSERT HEIGHT] its “excuse me sir”… Basically no way to make this not happen other than wearing dresses… And like it doesn’t “matter” since its not a real gendering, but any trans person would naturally hate it