i dont think people really understand what its like to be taller than your cis sisters when you are 12 and they are 17 and 18 respectively. or how it feels to be the tallest in the room 90% of the time and i dont even mind my height, i dont call myself a heighthon even. im only 5’11".
can you not have a bit of fucking empathy? height absolutely does matter. you quite literally have 0 idea what its like to feel like a literal giant next to cis women. short people can still have struggles, im not acting like you cant. like ive said, voice and face matter more, but height will get you clocked. for me, it doesnt matter much cause idc about the social shit, but for people who do, that shit matters a fuck ton. like come on.
i think i might not be at the right point to understand how my 6’2 height affects me yet. like im so unpassable in my face and voice and presentation that its not a problem atp. i have a feeling once ive improved in those other aspects my height will come to bother me. it might be like only 10% right now for me. but i totally get ppl dooming about height a majority of the time even… it shapes so much of how you interact with the world and being on the extreme is gigaropefuel