not on here, because I don’t want to humiliate myself online where anyone can steal my visage. But like, in the real world? should I try different outfits and places? Or should I just like let nature decide and like keep records of how I’m gendered what I’m wearing and how I perform, ETC. (need to voice train award)

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    people will be biased if asked, no one wants to say u dont pass to you.

    best way to tell is random ppl and their reactions.

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      4tranners are less hugboxxy than most if u decide u want online stuff

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        I don’t like posting myself online, the one time I did I got hateboxed by someone who resented my hips. and in real life, I got hateboxed by that one passing lady I mentioned. I don’t know…

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    see how people gender you unasked if you really wsnt to know i think, irl will either hugboxx or hateboxx too much depending on their personal biases if theyre asked to make a hudgement