It used to be tradition, at least when I went out dressed as a guy. But nowadays it seems like you have to say you want to split the bill, at least that’s what I see around.

I’m going out with this guy on Sunday and he said, “Baby, I’ll pay for your” and now I don’t know if the right thing to do is to say thank you or if that makes me look like a gold digger.

What is the polite protocol?

  • giuli9
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    6 days ago

    It really depends on the person, my bf sees splitting the bill as impolite, so we just take turns with paying. But idk what the right thing to do would be, maybe you could offer to split it and see how he reacts

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      6 days ago

      I suggested splitting the bill, or letting him pay for dessert, and he said, “Keep your money, little girl.”

      I still find it strange that he is being kind to me

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        6 days ago

        He’s a grown man, if he wants to pay then he can make that decision i think. Sometimes people are just nice, but that’s a rare thing sadly