Like, I’m not entirely chopped, I try my best to be kind and considerate to others, I’ve got some hobbies and interests and I’m actively working on improving myself, I have stable income and transportation, is being a tranny really that debilitating in the dating scene? But then again plenty of other trans people seem to do fine finding a partner so do I just suck? I had a partner BEFORE I came out but she ghosted my ass a couple months after I told her I’m trans, which yeah fair whatever you signed up to date a man (even if you said you were bi and were initially supportive of me and excited but whatever), but since I’ve been out I have had zero luck finding anybody interested in me. I know I’m not the most desirable person on the planet but there has to be someone who will love me, right??? I really feel like having a relationship would help me a lot, having a shoulder to lean on and someone there to motivate me that I don’t want to disappoint would be a game changer. Why is it so hard?