So there’s this guy I’ve become romantically involved with sort of, problem is that he lives like 50 miles away. Ordinarily this wouldn’t be a big deal, but he’s being super cagey and difficult to get a hold of. He lives with his mom, which again, no judgement, so I’m like “hey, you should come down to my place (I live alone in an apartment) so we can spend some time together” and he’s like “let me see when I’m available”. 🙄

We were supposed to get together today, and he canceled because he had some Easter family thing to go to that he “forgot” about, and now he’s saying he won’t be able to hang out until Friday or Saturday!

This is the second time this has happened, where I’m super clear with a guy that I want a relationship (even if it’s just a fwb thing) and they act like this. I’m like, dude, you live with your mom and I have an apartment that you can stay at for no money and where we can have more privacy, what’s the fucking downside??? So fed up with this bullshit, it’s so frustrating!