no one would be able to stand me though. dating me would be like taking care of a newborn baby. i’d just cry and ask “is this okay?” again and again. no one would be patient enough.

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      i know my ideal relationship isn’t reslistic, that’s what i said there at the end of the post

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      Me when mentally ill incel trannies have a delusional view of relationships 🤯🤯🤯🤯

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    there are people that patient. but becoming entirely reliant on someone else to live is dangerous.

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      its extremely appealing though. i want that more than anything.

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        and when they break up with you, you kill yourself. It’s one thing to want a protector and a lover and someone who will be gentle with you. Co-dependance just makes you kill yourself.

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          > be single -> rope

          > be codependent -> rope

          Really is no way out huh

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              Even an unhealthy one is. That’s how bad it is. I’m that undesirable.

              At least with an unhealthy one I can cope just maybe there’s a chaser insane enough out there but I highly doubt it

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                Tbh even if hell froze over and I somehow managed to make it into a healthy relationship I’d still end up getting overly attached to my partner cause of me being mentally ill af

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    yea i feel like every experience ive read about healing from insecurity and self perception issues talks about how important a loving relationship was for them

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    no other person can fix someone, tgey can help but your mind and your life is your own