• Anna ApesonOP
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      3 days ago

      i have dysphoria. that’s my problem. that’s why i’m miserable. me crying over my rapestick isn’t bdd.

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        No, but you continuing to cry over some minor thing after you get the 1000th surgery will be and that will happen unless you change

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        bdd is obsessing over every single minor detail in your appearance and inability to look at your appearance as a whole. even if it’s driven by dysphoria, it’s still bdd.

        • Anna ApesonOP
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          read about neuroligical sex incongruence and neurological body maps. this is literally just untrue.

          if someone loses an arms in an accident, their distress over that makes sense even if they’re still considered attractive looking.

          same thing applies to not being a youngshit. passing isn’t all that matters. body congruence is more important.

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            I know about all that, girl. Dysphoria is dysphoria. BDD is obsessing over minor features and that has already been said. It’s just in case of many trans people it stems from dysphoria too.

            >passing isn’t all that matters. body congruence is more important.

            also true.

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    Anna what would you do if you were 6’4 with broad shoulders, and an extremely masculine facial structure?

    • Anna ApesonOP
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      attempt to gigasurgerymaxx. maybe also wheelchairmaxx.

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      its real for cis people but when people accuse transsex people of being bdd, they’re actually just being dysphoric in 100% of cases.

      • Narcissus
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        nah. plenty of bdd around. even ive been bdd in the past to do with ny ED, there wasnt anything gender dysphoria telated there