i dont really have any desire to do more than that. 99% of people will never see my genetailia and my face, voice, and build is far more important for being gendered correctly. additonally i will never be able to produce T again, which would cause me much more dysphoria than just having a dick. I know that people will probably say that its fine or whatever if i as a 4traner want that but i see so much sneed hate for other trannies online who say shit like that, and i think that yall would hate me too if you knew how ‘faketrans’ i am or if i was too ‘cringe’ about it. idk maybe im not ‘trutrans’ in ur eyes but maybe thats okay. i would definitely be happier as a cringe sneedhon, maybe i should just let go and stop caring about this stupid bullshit.
i pretty much agree, like i would like to get bottom surgery some time and i might even get it (if im lucky) for free in like 10 years or so because of public healtcare, but ffs and such is way more important for me and that’s what i would use money on if i could. but all of this is easy for me to say though since i simply just don’t have as much genital dysphoria as many others do. i’m also afraid that this makes me into a faketrans sneedhon though lol
Yeah you really shouldn’t care that much about this stupid bullshit, and I should probably listen more to the advice I’m giving you rn too. I had an orchiectomy and went from absurdly bottom dysphoric to being a lowk princess wand troon, but the way I’ve gone about navigating this is by being like ssshhhhhhhh nobody has to hear what I do with my genitalia or how comfortable I am with it unless the topic is prompted by somebody else, especially not around the suicidally dysphoric troons who’d sincerely prefer an actual axewound and don’t want to be reminded of the existence of theirs or anybodies “girldick” (or insert other chaser word here).
I say all this because, like, when you really get down to it, a lot of tranners aren’t actually disturbed by people being generally comfortable-with/tolerant-of any particular physically androgynous configuration or using their body in xyz way… they’re disturbed by people bringing dysphoria-inducing natal-genital-centric sexual conversation into trans spaces, as-if the baseline assumption should be that trannies are comfortable with the traits that are most-connotated with their natal sex until specified otherwise, when it’s in everybodies best interest that the assumption is the other way around… as ideally it’d be assumed that trans people are not okay with these traits being emphasized in conversation or in bed until it’s specified otherwise by the trans person.
There’s a reason why posts like “having a penis doesn’t make me wanna kms, this must mean I am ROGD faketrans and should either detroon or kms” usually isn’t met with “I agree, kys pls” but instead is met with sentiments like “but clearly you’re dysphoric about other stuff and you don’t wanna masculinize, don’t rep pls, that’s retarded and self-harm”. The median opinion here isn’t gonna be that how you feel about your genitals should effect how we feel about you or your choice to transition. Ultimately, the trannies here care about whether or not you’re steering the broader conversation around transness towards the expectation that we should be able to accept traits tied to our natal sex, which can give conversion-therapy-like vibes. This is what makes gocksneed culture evil, it has little to do with being comfortable in their bodies in of itself.
That all makes sense thanks for responding. I agree that the default assumption should not be sneedgock.
none of this really matters because i will never afford to even get an orchi anyways.
