i try my best to not let this influence the way i speak to them but i’m always a bit afraid they see me as less of a woman for not being straight. i think it’s a bit of projection on my part bc i kinda think of myself as less of a woman for not being attracted to men but i mean… seeing some straight trans women unironically believing in blanchard and caling trans lesbians rapist straight men as a “joke” certainly doesnt help. idk it’s still prejudice either way and i wish i didn’t feel this way.
It’s because many people (in-fact, this is probably most-all cisoids who are at least circumstantially tolerant of transition) define “trutrans” as “has good reasons to transition in my opinion, as transition will make them less disharmonious within the present gendered social order, nor will they give cis women heart attacks with their hon-ery, thus their social standing and society as a whole is improved by their transition, as prior to beautifully and convincingly frauding as a woman, this failed-male had it too rough in society. Not to mention he was an eyesore. But no worries, balance is restored now. All is good in the world”.
Like, trust me, dysphoria doesn’t even begin to enter the equation in regards to trans people for them. If your transition would make you more disharmonious within the present order of gender, the expectation is to swallow whatever gripes you have with your body and accept that it was never meant to be. Why? Cisoids literally don’t know about dysphoria, and they’re the majority, so validity outside the trans community is beholden to their heterosexual-integrationist transmaxxing standard of what warrants a “good” or “justifiable” transition.