i try my best to not let this influence the way i speak to them but i’m always a bit afraid they see me as less of a woman for not being straight. i think it’s a bit of projection on my part bc i kinda think of myself as less of a woman for not being attracted to men but i mean… seeing some straight trans women unironically believing in blanchard and caling trans lesbians rapist straight men as a “joke” certainly doesnt help. idk it’s still prejudice either way and i wish i didn’t feel this way.
I think they’re unbothered by that in-large-part because, like, lowk, if a gay man is fruity enough, he can be put into a category of “one of the girls” even more easily than many gynephilic trans women. Even on testosterone and stuff, a lot of cis women would be less put off by a flamboyantly fruity gay man with a lot of sass accompanying his girlfriends to the womens bathroom than seeing a single potentially-transbian hon in the womens bathroom in any context whatsoever.
Knowing this, hussies feel less pressure to run away from the idea that they’re really just men deep-down, as many of them lived a life where, prior to even trooning, they were treated by women as distinct enough from normal moids that they can be socially integrated with women. Transbians almost never got that, so being connotated with moidness in any capacity is inherently going to be more negative and traumatic, as being seen as male means automatic social exclusion from women when combined with gynephilia.