I basically agree tbh. Oftentimes I find that it’s more like they would really like a vagina but also would feel bad giving up their penis to get it cuz they like having a penis too. I’ve talked to some gockwielding sneedy trans women about genital dysphoria in my days, and saying they’re not bottom dysphoric is usually a half-truth. They don’t hate what they got but they often don’t love missing out on having a vagina y’know? Their sexual mental map is basically duosex/bigendered with a female-lean.
Either that or their mental image of an srsussy is pretty grotesque, and having a less-than-ideal surgery outcome would make them feel more dysphoric than the low-threshhold bottom dysphoria they currently feel. But saying that part out-loud is less polite than just proclaiming zero dysphoria.
I basically agree tbh. Oftentimes I find that it’s more like they would really like a vagina but also would feel bad giving up their penis to get it cuz they like having a penis too. I’ve talked to some gockwielding sneedy trans women about genital dysphoria in my days, and saying they’re not bottom dysphoric is usually a half-truth. They don’t hate what they got but they often don’t love missing out on having a vagina y’know? Their sexual mental map is basically duosex/bigendered with a female-lean.
Either that or their mental image of an srsussy is pretty grotesque, and having a less-than-ideal surgery outcome would make them feel more dysphoric than the low-threshhold bottom dysphoria they currently feel. But saying that part out-loud is less polite than just proclaiming zero dysphoria.
interesting… thank you!