i’m like 90% sure shes trans and not on hrt, even if she had only been on for a couple months she would definitely look different. she would probably pass if on hrt, i mean shes girlmoding rn but shes probably in between hon and twinkhon, getting on hrt would tip the scale towards twinkhon or passoid

the only problem is i dont actually know if shes fs trans, and i dont know how to ask since she thinks im a cis man(lol) and we havent really talked too much. we’re in a conservative area so i highly doubt that shes a femboy or gnc, and she’s already one of the strangest people i have ever met(said with love)

idk, it’s scary bc i havent really met many troons irl due to living in a mostly conservative area, and im a social failure. how do i even respectfully ask someone if shes trans, then ask her if shes on hrt, then offer her hrt. sorry im lowk bad at making conversation, and really the main problem is i wish she would tell me directly if she was trans bc i dont even know what pronouns to refer to her as, and her name is androgynous.

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    10 days ago

    ty mods for letting me in, i was going to quit tttt spaces like a month ago but im back and with newfound positivity(hopefully) :D

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    (biased) if you diypill ppl you go to heaven no questions asked. you could punt the pope’s dog across a football field while wearing toddlerhide boots custom made for you by elbit systems and supreme and st peter wouldn’t even look at you funny.

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    9 days ago

    yeah, just be tactful abt it

    i once tried to diypill an irl before i found out that she was already on hrt, not my proudest moment

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      9 days ago

      i think ill go for a subtle “how long have u been on hrt” once we actually start talking, if she is on hrt though i would assume she likely just started

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        that would prolly work well, yeah