This is stupid. A passoid passes consistently. A gigapassoid passes effortlessly. A passoid might need to put in effort to pass. A gigapassoid is incapable of not passing. Stuff like “i only pass with long hair” doesn’t make u not a passoid. If you can live your life in a way which lets you be seen as a women by people around u your a passoid. It doesnt mean your dysphoria goes and it doesnt mean you dont have somewhere to transition to. The real bleak truth you look for is in three parts 1. You actually do have it good 2. A cis women or gigapassoid wouldnt even think about having to work to pass like you do 3. You have to keep relentlessly trying and that’s how the majority of passoids have to live. If your able to do this pre ffs your ok. If your post ffs you have to live as someone who’s existence is on a knifes edge and that is horrible. Doesnt mean your not a passoid. Cause the people who dont even pass do have it even worse