No bullshit. No drama.

We’re not fucking children. We should be able to understand nuance.

Two admins cannot bother themselves with every single microdrama. They found out about pizzaboy TWO DAYS AGO. They decided to let her stay because people can discuss diy freely here and not so many cummies like that are available. Yash told her not to interact with anything nsfw or else she would be banned. Lets be fr she would’ve made an alt either way. This was a headache that couldn’t have been solved in 2 days.

Pizzaboy was a victim of grooming and her entire situation was complex as hell. Banning her would’ve made no difference.

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    tbh my least favorite part of this is the victim-blaming being placed upon PZBY. she is a minor, she should not be blamed for being groomed by someone much older than her with more financial resources that offered her to move in. I get y’all hate minors and to be clear, I still think she should have not been allowed on here, but to say it’s her fault she got groomed or that she had any part to do with it other than being a victim is gross.

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        I don’t know. they still speak to each other so pastagirl is obviously trying to convince her to do so

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    i just think that if theyre gonna be lenient and allow minors then nsfw should be banned. otherwise this is no different from mtf which we claim to hate

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    It’s more that no one else was told. I would have liked to have been be told about them being a minor. I didn’t want to be interacting with someone the mods vetted and thought was safe on the platform. If they said “hey this person is a minor so ban them from these communities” that works for me.

    It’s not that they were a minor, it’s how the mods handled the situations

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      Again, they had 2 days before the situation was outed. They did not choose for it to go this way. It was LEAKED.

      They have lives. They cannot decide such a big thing in 2 days. Telling everyone immediately without a plan wouldve been worse

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        Chem knew for two days, Yash knew for longer. Way longer

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    we can’t allow minors and nsfw coms u can just join WHY IS THIS CONTROVERSIAL IDC if they ONLY knew for 2 days that’s 2 days too long with inaction

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    If you want more admins so badly

    i mean, i just want admins that wont knowingly allow people to interact with minors and blatantly break rules which are literally listed under “legal” i think thats a small ask

    the diy thing is also stupid asf this isnt the only tranny community in the world

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      This isnt the only one but its one of the very few. You legally cannot discuss where to get t on reddit.

      It just was too complex to solve in 2 days. The whole situation got leaked without their permission

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        You legally cannot discuss where to get t on reddit.

        you cant literally anywhere thats how the law works

        The whole situation got leaked without their permission

        GOOD?!?!?

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    Tbh idrc about minors being here I just think they shouldn’t be here if the rules are that this place is 18+. Otherwise the rules should just be changed. Obv would have to change rules around nsfw posts to accommodate

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    either they can follow their own rules and ban known minors or they have to at the elast prevent them from knteracting with nsfw shit. i really do not think thats a lot to ask.

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    i really dont care, shes definitely not the only minor here and this isnt the first time this has happened, I’m pretty sure the same thing happened in 4t4 i also hardly cared.

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    Yash knew about Pizzaboy being a minor for far far longer than that. Do not believe a word that Yash says.

    The grooming is still happening btw.

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    we’re not running elections for admins