I cannot promise perfect enforcement of the rules all the time, I also don’t have the time or energy to reply to every little thing that happens or to explain every action of mine. If you don’t trust me and chem as admins you’re free to leave.

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      what happened? can i get a tldr?

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        pizzaboy turned out to be 17.5 years old and i didn’t particularly care to ban her

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          under 18 is under 18. we cant have nsfw stuff here if you want minors allowed. also doing nothing about the other half of this is also really weird, im ngl

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      idc, we wrote the rules, there’s nothing preventing us from making it 13+ like reddit, we wanted something better than reddit and it’s been pretty good so far

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          how tf are people disagreeing with you on this lmao

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              its more that the world as a whole is pro pedo and unless people are actively looking out for warning signs then the same patterns will be repeated

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          illegal in the UK without id? are you gonna report the website?

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              it would be weird yea but as admin/mod there’s very little i can do about that, i don’t want to waste my time here

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              i looked at plenty nsfw content when i was a minor, so this seems like a bit of a nothingburger. this is one of the only trans communities that doesn’t suck, so i do kind of get the logic. but i’m probably wrong here, given that i just heard about this and y’all seem to know more about the situation

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                  ig i didn’t really think of the main tranistan as a place where people actually have sexual interactions, although there is sexual content on it. yeah idk you’re probably right

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                Holy fucking fuck, this is so obviously wrong how is it so hard to just say that knowingly allowing minors to interact with sexual content is extremely negligent at best and actively predatory at worst

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            why are you trying to justify exposing minors to porn.

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    If you don’t trust me and chem as admins you’re free to leave.

    What’s this then??

    And yes thats #39 done today at least...

    (this dm is fake) (obviously)

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    Honestly thats fair.

    Most of us are adults. We know that unless you’re a NEET, you’re not gonna be moderating 24/7 or have the time for some headaches that aren’t the end of the world.

    Maybe you could add more admins tho. I think pleasantaftertaste would be perfect

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    perfect enforcement is one thing but i think expecting mods to take action when they are openly aware of a rulebreaker is a much lower bar

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    Seconded. Yash and I are only going to intervene if something illegal is going on. Server sweep bans will only be done if something illegal is happening. If you have a problem with something, take it up to the communitie’s moderators.

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      Can you get another mod or 2… I think would be for the best…

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    what did i miss lmao someone tell me the tea