yk im in a very similar position to you as in measurements, same height pretty much and similar shoulders. id qualify myself as a bodyhon because of this. my face is better? i guess? but sadly i dont pass at all. my theory is that because i look and dress like a teenage boy and with my huge body they assume im just that and like im only 20 anyways so why would i dress like a full blown adult? i dont think its even possible to girlmode while obese because every insecure obese girl outside wears loose clothing, but they still pass since their shoulders are tiny while having huge hips and small height so idk. you got any tips maybe?