• Arcynic
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    15 days ago

    Bc if you fail extra hard you’ll be more miserable and won’t physically be able to try again

  • AriaLove8Strings
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    15 days ago

    Bc succeeding is hard and failing will only make your life worse and you’ll likely be forced to detransition. Also, each time I’ve considered kms, there came better and happier days. I know you don’t wanna hear or believe it, I am the same (my friends always tell me that it gets better and I’m an attention whore), but it does get better. A lot of us have BPD, PTSD, GAD, and any combination of mental illnesses. If you don’t have a persistent desire to kill yourself for like a straight month every day, then maybe don’t do it. When you are depressed and anxious, it’s hard to see the way out, and your problems might feel insurmountable.

    There is no real reason to do or not to do it in my opinion. If you have the access to a perfect ethical suicide method and you’re absolutely 100% sure you’re being reasonable, I think it’s fine. Our life is short and insignificant, and I believe that this fact can be argued both for and against suicide. If human life is so short, then maybe give it a chance. You’ll spend the rest of the eternity being dust in the vast space anyway, not existing.

    • Yearn4FreedomOP
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      I’m not 100% sure because I keep coping and hoping that it will get better. Actually it’s not hope, I just dissociate all the time. And when I go back to reality I realize that my bones are insurmountable, cry, think about ending it and then going back to dissociating. Do you think I should do it?

      • AriaLove8Strings
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        15 days ago

        I will never tell a person to kill themselves. I believe that each one of us is special and has value, but I can’t make you stay on this earth

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      15 days ago

      Do you want me to go through a lifetime of torture just for someone to not be sad? This is so selfish